Chilling out in the summer is hard to do unless one has an AC.
But, hanging out? Really relaxing in the company of others and feeding off the creative energy of their bodies, and not feeling pressure to speak or do or act unless one wants to is: in my opinion, truly a wonderful level of friendship to be enjoyed by only the closest of friends.
And what causes that comfort? That level of trust, to know that the people who also happen to be in the room will be totally content to stay in their underwear all day and maybe debate taking a shower and maybe have to get up at one point and announce that they’ll be back after they take a dump? That comes from love. A love of the people around you. A love that transcends a need for sex or for drama or for stimulation, a love that occurs when one can be happy just sitting in the same confines of the same four walls as other people.
When someone has that relationship with others, be they roommates, relatives, co-workers, or best friends, that’s something special. Lovely. A romance with other relationships that aren’t just a boyfriend or girlfriend.
I love hanging out with other people who also want to just hang out.
Oh, hello delicious summer afternoons. I’m loving the sweet flavor of your laid-back kisses.
July 10, 2012 at 7:11 pm by Natalie Allen